What should I tell them?

[sally]

My father commited suicide. I don’t even know what to say to anyone when they ask "why did he do it", because I don't know. Any suggestions would be very appreciated.

[Jim S]

Sometimes they just want the details about how hard someone's life was. Makes them feel better about their own lives, I guess. If you don't know, then that's all you have to say, right?

You could get nasty and tell them its not their business, I guess.

[jude07]

True! Just leave them guessing after all you might be guessing, too.

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[Carl]

You can't jump into someone else's skin, and know their suffering. No matter how many details you provide, it will never be enough. I've said many things to people like that - "We'll never know", or "It's private".

[connect07]

I know it is such a hard time to answer it. Some peoples have bad habit to asked again and again. I know this is critical situation for you. But you can't tell anything to them.

[alice]

I agree with you. You need immediate support from caring people who can help you get through this crisis and rediscover meaning in your life. You need to stop everything else and get help as soon as possible, no matter how badly you feel, because otherwise, you may kill yourself in short order.

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[gotorightway123]

True! Just leave them guessing after all you might be guessing, too...............